05-07-2012, 07:04 AM
Whats up dude bros.
Im new to the form. So I apologize if this is in the wrong spot. I couldn't find the " friend in need" section... Ive been with my girl for a little less then 5 years now since she was 16 and I was 19, shes basically been living with me for 2 years on and off now. Ive been thinking about marrying her for years now. We're going to Mexico in 2 weeks I bought a $10k ring so I could propose to her there. This girl is my best friend and the best thing thats ever happened to me. But Im getting cold feet. She hasn't done anything wrong. But for one marriage scares the shit out of me. Just from all the failed marriages that has been around me my whole life. And 2nd and big issue is. Im so tired of our almost non existence sex life. Some time less the once a month. This girl does not like having sex at all. Shes always been like this, since our very first time. shes told me many times the only reason she lets me is to keep me around, even though it hurts her. She'd be fine with never having sex. I was her first and only. Me on the other hand have been with many girls before. Girls that were awesome in bed made me feel like a porn star. I have never had these kind of issues that I've been deeling with the last 4 years and its getting worse as time goes on. Everyone says " once they say I do they don't do that anymore" if thats the case with normal girls, I'll be cut off for life with her. Is that just life?? I know relationships aren't good based on just sex like my past one always have been. Which is one reason I went for this girl in the first place. she was the good girl that I could trust and not have to worry about her sleeping around on me, like the girls from my past. Is that just the cold truth about life and just embrace that, thats just the married life? And be lucky I have a great girl and I can trust and just buy a life time supply of lotion and fantasize about the hot nussies that like to fuck my brains out every day. Instead of once a month or so lay there and tell me to hurry up and get it over with.... Is any body else have these kind of issues? And options for her, Medical wise? Or anything. Am I over reacting?
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Im new to the form. So I apologize if this is in the wrong spot. I couldn't find the " friend in need" section... Ive been with my girl for a little less then 5 years now since she was 16 and I was 19, shes basically been living with me for 2 years on and off now. Ive been thinking about marrying her for years now. We're going to Mexico in 2 weeks I bought a $10k ring so I could propose to her there. This girl is my best friend and the best thing thats ever happened to me. But Im getting cold feet. She hasn't done anything wrong. But for one marriage scares the shit out of me. Just from all the failed marriages that has been around me my whole life. And 2nd and big issue is. Im so tired of our almost non existence sex life. Some time less the once a month. This girl does not like having sex at all. Shes always been like this, since our very first time. shes told me many times the only reason she lets me is to keep me around, even though it hurts her. She'd be fine with never having sex. I was her first and only. Me on the other hand have been with many girls before. Girls that were awesome in bed made me feel like a porn star. I have never had these kind of issues that I've been deeling with the last 4 years and its getting worse as time goes on. Everyone says " once they say I do they don't do that anymore" if thats the case with normal girls, I'll be cut off for life with her. Is that just life?? I know relationships aren't good based on just sex like my past one always have been. Which is one reason I went for this girl in the first place. she was the good girl that I could trust and not have to worry about her sleeping around on me, like the girls from my past. Is that just the cold truth about life and just embrace that, thats just the married life? And be lucky I have a great girl and I can trust and just buy a life time supply of lotion and fantasize about the hot nussies that like to fuck my brains out every day. Instead of once a month or so lay there and tell me to hurry up and get it over with.... Is any body else have these kind of issues? And options for her, Medical wise? Or anything. Am I over reacting?
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